Om Sandra L.Ralph

My name is Sandra, a graduate student majoring in Finance. I am a simple girl who want to enjoy life and travel around the world. I rarely stay in Sweden more than 4 months before I pack my suitcase and travel again. As a person I am fun-loving, easy going but sometimes can be very strict. I like to discuss stuffs and love to meet new people for culture and lifestyle exchange. I am curious so maybe your first impression when you meet me is I am asking a lot of questions. I often want to learn about the persons I meet, the journeys they have been through etc. In the free time I like to read, to learn and to hang out with friends. Some people describe me as hyperactive since I find it hard to stay without doing anything. I like to fill my free time with activities and sometimes I end up being so stressful. However, for me it is okay to do a lot of things since I am young and have a lot of energy so why not? :)

Backwaters of Kerala

Yesterday we went south of Cochin and to Alappuzha to reach the backwaters. There are several places where you can reach the backwaters but we chosen this places since we could take the local bus for 2 hours from Cochin. Our lovely hostesses took us to the bus station with their scooters so we would find the right bus.


So to the backwaters of Kerala, it was really amazing. Definitely one of the best places we have been to here in India. It is supposed to be around 900 km long waterways and half the length of Kerala. As you understand, it is very large. We took a small boat so we could go through the small canals of the backwaters. They’re a lot of people living by the backwaters and the trip let us see the daily life of the Indians living by the backwaters. We did see several people washing clothes, dishes, taking a shower, cleaning their hair, everything you can imagine! It was really interesting and fun to see and be a part of. After 3 hours we stopped at a very small restaurant, probably a friend to our boat driver, where we had fresh fried fish. After that we head back to Alappuzha and took the local bus to Cochin. We definitely recommend doing that if you are around.

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True love!

After coming to Kerala, we did not have time to see so much since we just spent time in the house working. We have been working non-stop for two days in a row now.



Today, we are treated with cake and a special dinner by our host mother. At first, we did not know the reason to the celebration since my host-parents speak so little English, we guessed that they may be something to do with the church, but we were wrong. Today is our host parents’ 25 th wedding anniversary. We don’t know whether their wedding was based on love or if it was an arranged one (which is quite normal in India at that time). But holding on with each other for 25 years is impressive according to our opinions. As young girls on the way to finding ourselves, we really want to find the love of our life later on, a true love! We like the thoughts of being with someone throughout life, to share the happiest but also the saddest moments.


We need to mention that we really admire the way our host parents spend quality time together: Everyday after the dinner, they usually sit in the garden and talk until late night or they sit near the beach watching the moon. We know that newly in love couples often do those kind of romantic gestures but still having this habit after 25 years is really impressive. Is that the reason to why they can stay in love after so long time and still being together? Their love is so simple but deep. Seeing them together does give us hope that true love may also will come and stay with us in a very near future:)



Our own Indian family

Today we had lunch with the landlord of our apartment, the one we are renting here in Colva, Goa. They have treated us very well during this trip and we can definitly recomend to stay at their place (Colva Holiday Homes), search at Airbnb. Great hostess, and today we where invited to their house to eat some homemade Goan dishes. There was fish, curry, (of course), vegetables, prawns and so on. Really good! Then they served us ice creme for desert. Both felt like as if they where our own grandparents. Picking us up with their car, then all the time trying to fill our plats with more food so we really are full. Then wanting to pack some food for our train ride today to Kerala. Always giving good advise and taking care of us. They really are good people ! So if you go to Goa, you should definitely stay here then :)



Flying high with your dreams!


The economy of India is the tenth largest in the world by nominal GDP, however, India is still the home of many people living under the poverty line. After coming to India, our view considering poverty has changed remarkably. In Sweden, sometimes people talk about the relative children poverty, meaning children who are living in poverty are the one who do not have enough money spending on leisures, for example: Children who cannot afford for a new computer or who can not hang out on a class-trip. But here in India, we see another form of poverty, the absolute form. People who are living under absolute poverty are the one who can not afford for their basic needs regarding: food, clean water or health care. What we see and observe in India sometimes make us really sad. But despite the hard life in India, we can still somehow find hope and the passion in people and it is really a positive sign.

We want to share the story of Rahis Ali, 19 years old from Mumbai. We met Rahis Ali when he tried to sell Goa’s maps to us. We kindly explained to him that we are not in the need of a map since we have our iPhones and google Map. Rahis had no idea what google map is, but he tried to make us change our minds. We asked him why he goes around and tries to sell map because it is hard to find customers nowadays since most of tourists coming to Goa have smartphones which can connected to Internet and Google map. Rahis did not have any answer to our question. We asked him where he is from, he said he is from Mumbai and we also asked him why he came to Goa and his answer is it is because he wants to learn English: ”You don’t find so many foreigners in Mumbai, but here you can always practice a lot of English. I want to be better in English so later on I can find a better job. I won’t need to sell map anymore” said Rahis with a big smile on his face.

Everyday, Rahis takes the bus from Madgao, the central station to Colva Beach to sell map to foreign tourists. But it depends on if he has any money for bus trips, if his business was bad he would walk instead in order to save money. And the distance from Madgao to Colva Beach is about more than 15 km. Rahis’s working time varies, but it is around 10-12 hours a day. If he got lucky, he could sell 3- 4 maps a day but it can also be that he could not sell any map at all, despite the fact that he walked all day in the sun. Today, when I saw him in the afternoon in front of my apartment. He gladly said Hi to me. I asked him where he is going. He said he is going back home and will take a rest. His business was bad today and he said now he doesn’t have any money for neither lunch or dinner. I emptied my pocket and found 30 Rs to him, the money is just enough for bus trips. Before he left, I asked him if he now has any intention to switch the brand and sell something else. After a short confusion, He shook his head and looked at me, tired but serious. ”I know that this is a hard job, and people don’t like to do it. But it is my chance to learn english. I will not give up. I dream about being big in the future” 

We separated, as we might can never see each other again. Rahis’ answer bring me back to three ago when I met my friend Nita’s father in China. My friend’s father is a very success business man. But according to Nita, her father had worked from the bottom up. ”My father started with selling travel bags in the train station, he has worked so hard to be the man he is today, he had a dream and the dream has always being a compass guided him through hardships in life”.

 We really hope that the same thing will happen to Rahis. His answer really impressed us, and so did his smile and strong will. We learned a lesson from him: ”Never give up, doesn’t matter how hard life is, a better day will come soon”.


Rahis to the right with his friend, both are from Mumbai

Caste system in India

Today was the first day that we really noticed that the Indian cast system still exist by experiencing it by our self. My shoe had broken so i went around the shops in Palolem to ask if someone could help me fix it. The first one just said no, then I went to another shop. The next one ask me if i though she was a ”shoe fixer”, i just asked if she had any glue so i could walk home with the shoes. But then she told me that it was an offence asking her to fix my shoes since it is only the low castes in India that have that kind of jobs. She would not even fix her own shoes. I apologised and it was ok. She also told us that she could not even tell other people that she sells shoes in her shop, because they would think lower of her then. At that time we really experienced the strong presence of the Indian caste system.

In the end i got myself a new pair of shoes because no ”shoe fixer” existed in that area so she told me no one would help me with my problem. Got my new pair of slippers and the problem for my sake was fixed but the existence of the caste system will probably exist for a long time Im afraid.
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IMG_3866On our way to Palolem beach from Colva




We bought train tickets the other day to go to Kerala, which will be the next stop on our route. Kerala is famous for its backwaters where you in different ways can travel through the beautiful green area. Besides that they have one of the best Wildlife Sanctuary in south of India, called Periyar. Where they hav 900-1000 elephants, 35-40 tigers, sambar, wild boar, languor, bison and so on. We are thinking about tanking a 1 night 2 days tour in the park where you stay one night in a tent sleeping in the wildlife sanctuary. It costs 4000 rupees which is about (500 sek), 68 dollars. Not a lot comparing to a lot of other places where you can do these sorts of things.
Besides that we are going to just enjoy Kerala from 15th to 20th when we are planning to go to Chennai (Madras).

Now we are heading out to see Palolem, which is supposed to be the most beautiful place here in Goa. Finally we will get some beach time, well deserved after handing in the first chapters!

Panaji, sunset



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